Friday, March 9, 2012

Delray Beach, FL - February 2012


My third NOMADS Project in 2012 brought me farther south to Delray Beach, FL.  Yes, I am about a mile from the Atlantic Ocean, a nice walk on a breezy evening.  On the down side, I prefer a cooler climate and this far south is downright hot.  In late February, it should be cooler than the high 80’s, wouldn’t you think?  Complain and jab all you want, northerners, but your sour attempts at playful humor are lost on me.  I like a little winter with my seasons.

Like most NOMADS projects, this one was quite different from the other preceding projects.  The team is small – seven folks spread across four ‘homes’ of four very different sizes and shapes.  I had the only fifth-wheel trailer, in fact the only ‘trailer’ of any type.  The other three were motor homes ranging from small to mega.  Four RV’s crowded into a small corner lot in a residential community.  Our water source was on one side of the lot and electric on the other.  I was given the opportunity to park nearest the only sewer outlet – yeah, the smell – but close to the electrical panel.  I should also mention that I parked near the only spot of tall grass, which prided itself on giving unrestrained access to my trailer for millions of tiny ants.  Florida is wonderful, to some maybe.

I find the people in this area of the world to be somewhat ruder than most areas of the country where I have visited.  This has been quite a change from the good folks of Ruston, LA.  I do not know the reason but I will bet it is related to the constant heat.  Drivers tend to honk for the least of reasons, or none.  Shoppers have not learned the courtesy of returning their shopping cart to a collection point, preferring to leave the cart either in an empty parking space or the driveway between them.  Some of the local folk who have the money to spend on reverberating equipment that blasts deep bass sounds for blocks around, which apparently is akin to the loud rock and roll music of years gone past, than they have on hearing aids that will certainly be required of them in future years.

I learned that many homeless people come here for the warm temperatures during the winter months.  One particular ‘customer’ of the soup kitchen was a thirty-two year old man from Chicago.  He was in Florida this time of the year for the warm climate.  At the downturn of the nation’s economy, he lost his job as an electrician.  His truck followed along with the tools of his trade, and then his home and family.  He could find no work and became homeless.  As the cold winter months approached – that only folks in Chicago know all too well -- he too headed south.  The past weekend he intended to head back to Chicago and find work.  I wish him well.  May the Lord guide that young man and help him regain his life.

As you guessed by now, our team worked at a soup kitchen that served the homeless and disadvantaged in Delray Beach.  No, not serving food or even preparing it.  We repaired and maintained the facility that housed the kitchen.

This NOMADS team was a little different from what I have grown accustomed.  Team cohesion, individual desires, passive leadership, and organization (both from the sponsor and team leader) contribute to an awkward environment.  I woke most mornings not knowing what lay ahead, not that I needed that of course, but there was no objective in the workday.  One my first day, upon arriving at the worksite after our devotional period, I asked what was on the agenda for the day.  No one knew.  The leader, for whatever reason, could not find the words or abilities to direct the team.  Frustrating, for sure.  By group dynamics and ‘committee decision’, we arrived at the need to paint the exterior of the building.  Ok, first we were to power wash the building.  However, wait, before we can power wash, we need to trim a hedge, mow grass next to the building, clip branches from trees, clean vines from one side, and fix loosely hanging telephone or electrical wires.  All right, where are the tools?  What?  No one anticipated the need for tools?  Oh, we had a power washer on loan.  What about lawn mower, clippers, and the like?

The week before we arrived a volunteer who was to help with maintenance coordination had fallen from a ladder and hurt his back.  Nothing broken, thank the Lord, but he was sore enough, and perhaps smart enough, to stay off his feet for a few days.  By telephone, he offered to supply a few tools.  I was the only team member with a truck so I volunteered to find the guy’s house and pick up the tools.  I was successful in doing that, and had a wonderful hour or so meeting and talking with the delightful man.  He was one of the few really kind Floridians.  He gave me directions for a short-cut back to the soup kitchen and with my ever keen sense of direction, it only took me an hour or so of wandering through the local community, up and down streets, and around curves only to find myself back near his house.  I turned my initial directions upside down and returned the way I had taken to arrive at his house.  It worked.

With the right tools, we set about preparing the exterior walls for washing.  This part of our project was to take two days.  We finished everything by noon on our first day, including my tour of Delray Beach.  Over the next two days, we put two coats of paint on the exterior and had most of the interior painted.

We went on to lay what the locals called pavers in two sections beside a newly laid concrete walkway.  The leader would simply acknowledge that laying pavers was one of our tasks so the other two men, apparently thinking a little fast than I, elected me to do that task.  Not a bad deal on my part, I grant you.  It kept me from painting the ceiling in the kitchen.  On the down side, I worked out by the back door where all the ‘customers’ of the soup kitchen gathered to be let in and fed.  Needless to say, I had more supervisors and technical advisors than I needed.  Patience as my guide, I endeavored to persevere and casually laid the stone slabs in sand in a fashion that suited me although I was advised quite none too passively that I was doing it wrong.  I enjoyed the banter, nevertheless, and I think the audience did too.

If that was not enough for the daily gathering of smiling and rather loud onlookers, the soup kitchen staff asked me to distribute two large piles of sand around the facility.  Our team suggested they try to sell the sand or at least advertise it free, but no.  They wanted it spread through the grass – not dumped in yet another pile but spread in such a way as to let the grass grow through it.  The gathering crowd once again delighted in advising me on the right way to spread sand.  More than once I offered my shovel to anyone of them, but that did not work, and neither would they.  Again, I enjoyed the banter nevertheless.

Our team succeeded in painting the building inside and out, stripping and waxing the floor, cleaning the furniture, and repairing tables.  Not being a people-person, generally, I enjoyed interacting with the people around the soup kitchen.  Conversely, I did not enjoy the lack of leadership on this project or the constant heat when I expect a cooler winter.  I know, of course, that the Lord gives his children opportunities to explore the spiritual gifts that he bestows upon them.  I thank the Lord for giving me this opportunity to exercise my patience and compassion.

Soup Kitchen
Back of Building
Power washing
Laying patio stone
Stripping wax
The NOMADS Team
Sunset over Delray Beach

Eustis, FL - January/February 2012


2012, the start of my second year of projects for United Methodist NOMADS; serving the Lord by helping others.  Last year, beginning in January, I scheduled my first three projects alternating with a three-week break between projects.  I learned my lesson then.  I quickly found myself returning to West Virginia between projects and putting many unnecessary miles on my trailer.  This year, I booked four projects back to back, which would take me away from West Virginia for three months.  This was a test to see how I would like being on the road for a long period.

My first and second projects brought me to the Hearts and Hands Ministry in Eustis, FL.  From January 8 through February 17, I was at the same location for six weeks.  The team leaders changed with each project and all but one couple changed.  Since one delightful couple scheduled Projects #1 and #2, I had good company throughout the stay.  The team for the first project brought four couples from the same church.  I believe they were all from Illinois.  They were a nice group of folk and reminded me of my family in Oklahoma.

For the first time in my two years with the NOMADS and six projects, friends from one of my previous NOMADS projects joined me.  First, I should say that technically speaking the delightful couple that stayed over for a second project is included in this distinction.  Outside of them, a couple from Hawaii (yes, they travel in an RV full time and no, I do not know how they drove it across the Pacific Ocean) who worked with me at the Boy’s Ranch in Gore, OK, joined me in Eustis, FL.  It was great to see them again.

After living 20+ years in a marriage where me having my own friends was somewhat challenging, I am SO happy to now have friends of my own.  That might sound rather strange, and if it does, well, so be it.  In any event, I have made such great friends through NOMADS and the locations my adventures have brought me.  I have great friends in Florida, Maine, Michigan, South Dakota, and all across the country.  I guess the NOMADS is something of a ‘country club’ where I can meet people, enjoy their friendship, and share the love of Christ, all at the same time.  It’s great!

Ok, back to the NOMADS projects.  My first two projects brought me to Eustis, FL, to serve with the Hearts and Hands Ministry.  The Ministry offers food pantry, thrift store, and outreach in the local community for home repair.  My work was mostly in home repair.

Our first task was to paint the exterior of a storage trailer.  The trailer, like one a semi pulls across the country, was full of lumber, paint, and home repair ‘stuff’.  The team leader divided us into small groups for each task.  I was in charge of painting the trailer.  We had the paint, supplies, and workers.  We first power-washed the trailer, which was done in short order.  Next the painting.  However, my first challenge was deciding who could get up on top of the trailer to paint a black trim.  Surprisingly, a man from another task came by to get supplies from the trailer.  Next thing I know he is climbing a ladder, before anyone else could hold it for him, and he is on the roof leaning over the side and painting trim.  Oh, he is the oldest team member at 84 years.  Makes me wonder why the people in the church I attend in West Virginia say they are too old for mission work and they are in their late 60’s and early 70’s.  Well, the Lord does not call everyone to do mission work.

We got the trailer painted, after a fashion.  Most of our painting group dispersed to other tasks of higher priority.  One very nice touch was lettering on the side that gave tribute to NOMADS and Hearts and Hands.  My neighbor, a very nice woman from Illinois, did the lettering and artwork.  She has real talent.  She also amazed me by telling me she had retired at 67 from her job as a nurse some years before.  Geez, I thought, you don’t even look like you’re 60!

A significant surprise during the first project was my daughter visited for the day and worked with the team.  (To do this, she had to join NOMADS officially.  So, she may well be the youngest NOMADS member!)  She lived about 30 miles away and blessed me with a visit.  It was wonderful seeing her.

Another wonderful thing that happened during my first project was a visit from a couple I met while serving at the Outdoor Wilderness Learning Center, Louisiana Children’s Home, near Ruston, LA.  As it turns out, the couple from Maine is good friends with one of the couples on the team.  They stopped by to visit.  We had a short but wonderful time talking about what each of us was doing and sharing a few laughs.  It was so good to see them.  I learned that they had been following my ‘progress’ in NOMADS and encouraged me to become qualified as a NOMADS Team Leader.

Another NOMAD and I worked on siding of a woman’s home.  The structure had been her grandmother’s home and was now in dire disrepair.  I could tell the original siding was wood, now covered by weathered shingles.  We wanted to tear off all the siding and replace it but we were only able to make repairs, not remodeling, and replacement was considered by someone as remodeling.  We had a little difficulty finding anything solid to put a screw into so we used four-inch screws hoping to find something solid.  Though it took nearly three weeks, we managed to put new siding on the north and south sides.  The woman who lived there, who was a grandmother herself, was very happy.

The second project gave me an opportunity to go where man, well at least this man, has never gone before, and that is up on a roof.  One of the homes in the area was to be painted.  It also had a hole in the roof.  No one was anxious to volunteer to do the job, so I did.  I had been on a roof only once before and that was within the past year when I helped a friend in my home church repair a roof in our neighborhood.  He taught me so much, including the confidence to climb to the top of the world, well, the top of the roof.  Now, my team leader and I ventured upon the roof.  Here I was, with my new tool belt but otherwise void of any sense of confidence, standing on a slanted roof trying to appear as if I had some slight idea of why in the world was I up there, fixing to take off some old shingles and examine the hole beneath them.  After minimal guidance from my friendly pro, I was soon removing shingles, cutting out wood and replacing it with new wood, covering it with tarpaper, and replacing old shingles with new.  Very cool!  Now, I can say I do roofs.  (Thanks, friend in Hedgesville.)

Another task involved hooking up a sewer line from a house to the main sewer at the street.  One of the three of us on that task was a retired plumber.  I later learned that he was at least as old as my dad would have been.  His demeanor intimidated me.  Perhaps it was because I wanted to learn or whatever the reason, he calmly instructed me on what to do each step of the way.  The third man and I hand-dug a trench from the edge of the house to the street.  One challenge was an open hole in the front yard where the septic tank was overflowing with raw sewage.  Not daunted by such trivial challenges, we dug the trench, lay the pipe as the seasoned plumber fixed the connections, and later covered it all up.  This was the second, ‘Very cool!’

At that same house, I helped install three ceiling fans, a kitchen cupboard, and a hood over the stove.  I had the occasion to do some electrical work for the first time.  Third, ‘Very cool!’

Over the course of six weeks, I was able to do many things that I had never done before.  The team leader was great in letting me experience and learn, and use my own tools.  This was a great double-project.  It brought me from being rather uneducated in carpentry to at least knowing how to know what a soffit is, how to fix one, and the confidence that I can do it.  The Lord blessed me greatly by bringing me to these projects and putting the right people in my path.  Wonderful!  Praise the Lord!

Former Methodist Church where we camped

Trailer ready for painting

Power-washing the trailer

Painting on a nice day
First house - installing new siding
Seeing how the new siding looks
Caulking and painting the finished siding
Lake Eustis


Saturday, November 5, 2011

Gore, OK - October 2011

There are times when the Lord either causes situations to happen or places you in the path of others for the purpose of learning.  We spend most of our lives learning, even when we think we know it all or can learn it by ourselves.  It is interesting to see how the Lord orchestrates natural forces and our lives to prove His presence, His love, and His control – all to teach us a lesson in life.

The project at the United Methodist Boy’s Ranch outside of Gore, Oklahoma, provided the setting for valuable lessons.  The Lord presented me with challenges that tested my humility, patience, futility, and patience.  At the outset, I was excited to be working on a ranch and helping to better the lives of boys who lived there.  It did not matter to me their stories, whether involving neglect or errant behavior or any reason.  I was anxious to serve the Lord by being a mechanism of change or being a model to the young men.  I realize every NOMADS project is different, much like the uniqueness of the many missions where I had previously served.  This experience tested my tolerance, fortitude, and endurance.  I sustained myself on faith that my Lord had led me there for a purpose.  I just did not know what that purpose was.

The NOMADS projects scheduled during the fall were open on a first-come, first-served basis.  I heard that the Boy’s Ranch was a nice project and it was highly recommended among all NOMADS projects.  Since I tend to gravitate toward projects that involve outdoor work and a farm setting, I was anxious to sign up.  After sending my application for that project to the NOMADS project administrator, I learned that I filled the last available allotted slot on the team.  Hurray!

Soon after signing up, I learned that my daughter was in a healing facility in Florida.  The facility staff asked me to participate in a Family Week scheduled during my first week at the Ranch.  It was not a matter of priorities for me; I simply needed to arrange travel to Florida and excuse myself from the first week of the project.  The Lord was already ahead of me on my arrangements.  Prior to the Boy’s Ranch project, I attended the NOMADS Annual Meeting in Iowa and helped with parking.  The team leader for the Ranch project was attending the Meeting also.  Further, he was helping with parking too.  We were able to meet and discuss my situation before the project began in Oklahoma, immediately following our week in Iowa.  He readily agreed that I should be with my daughter.  For me, the project could wait.

At the end of the Annual Meeting, I delivered my trailer to the Boy’s Ranch and left it there.  Early the next morning I was flying out of Tulsa on my way to Florida.  I spent a wonderful week with my daughter, which was a fantastic blessing in itself.  The week passed quickly and again I was flying across country toward Oklahoma.

The project at the Ranch began on Saturday evening, October 1, 2001.  Within minutes of arriving, a woman told me that everyone was attending a pie auction at a local church.  She invited me to go and ride with her and her husband.  I learned that the couple was not associated with the NOMADS but had been volunteering at the Boy’s Ranch rodeo for the past 15 years.

The pie auction was nice and it was perhaps the first auction that I attended and did not buy anything.  This is not to say I did not want to.  I had my eye on one of two very nice cherry pies, but due to what I would call sloppy auctioneering, the pies went to other people.  Oh, well, at least I got to see them.  I also got to see Elvis.  He must have been hiding among the beautiful hills surrounding the pristine Lake Tenkiller.  He paid a brief visit and sang a couple of songs.  I did not get the chance to meet him up close but, like the pies, at least I got to see him too.  He looked good for his age.

Sunday morning began with services at the Cookson United Methodist Church.  It was a wonderful service.  Oddly enough, the pastor seemed to resemble Elvis in a manner of speaking.  No, it could not have been.  Everyone knows there is only one Elvis.  Uh-huh, uh-huh, thank ya very much.’  After church, our team gathered at a local trough for some good eats.  I got a chance to meet everyone.  As I had anticipated, all the NOMADS were very friendly and welcoming.
Assorted small jobs filled my first week.  I helped replace seats on bleachers beside the horse arena, fix a door on the announcer’s booth overlooking the arena, seal a new swinging bench that overlooked the lake, and seal two large wooden crosses.  My second week included more small jobs.  I helped install screen on a door and then mount it, mow around the bleachers, fix fencing around a chicken coop, and a little kitchen work.

I enjoyed working in the kitchen.  The leader in the kitchen was a volunteer not affiliated with the NOMADS.  She was gracious to pass around her recipes but the time spent with her was almost more valuable.  She divulged many secrets of cooking and ingredients.  I kept a notebook at hand and soon had a full page of notes.  For example, have you ever heard of adding Red Hots candies to applesauce and pies?  I helped make cobblers and fried pies for serving or sale at the rodeo.

My evening activities included two campfires – one on the lake with hotdogs and 20 or so boys at the Ranch and the other on a rock outcropping overlooking a valley while listening to one of the volunteers play a 1941 Gibson guitar.  I also participated in a community meal with the boys and staff.  I enjoyed interacting with the boys, hearing their stories, and sharing great times.  They seemed very polite, gracious, and hospitable.  I guess I expected them to be a bit rougher inside and out.
The staff gave our team a tour of the Methodist Children’s Home in nearby Tahlequah, which joins the Boy’s Ranch under the Oklahoma United Methodist Circle of Care for Children and Youth program.  The Children’s Home houses girls.  The boys and girls come together to participate in the rodeo and display their horse riding skills.  Following the tour, we enjoyed a fantastic meal at a local BBQ restaurant.  I have not yet experienced a NOMADS project where I went hungry.

Our NOMADS project officially ended on Thursday, October 13, but I volunteered to stay over and help with the rodeo.  My job was ‘flag man’ and I would raise a small flag to signal the timekeeper when riders began their riding competition.  It was joyful to watch the kids show off their creativity when they acted out a skit put to a popular song.  It was also fun to watch the kids ride around the arena.  Some of the games included two riders side-by-side holding a rope while they circled barrels (without dropping the rope), a Pony Express relay race, and riding after calves as they ran from one end of the arena to the other, and then guiding the calf through a gate.  Some of the kids were new to riding but all did very well.

Oh, in case you are wondering where the Lord’s lessons were, they were incurred through dealing with other people, not the horses.

The Boy’s Ranch project was fun.  I heard there is another NOMADS project at the Children’s Home in Tahlequah, which is associated with the Boy’s Ranch.  I would like to return to Oklahoma and participate in either project.
View of Lake Tenkiller from Boy's Ranch Lodge

Enjoying a 'Sing-along' at sunset

Site of our 'Sing-along'
View of the campsites for volunteers

The Ranch has LOTS of horses

Replacing boards on bleachers before rodeo

Rodeo arena

Cooking up a few things for the boys' hungry appetites
 
Fixed the door to the 'tower'

Sealed a new swing
Cooking ingredients for Fried Pies

Boy's Ranch Lodge

View from Lodge overlooking Lake

Have a seat here and relax by the lake
The girls get started for the rodeo

Warming up for the rodeo

Young rider shows off his riding skill

Rehearsing Opening Ceremony

Paying tribute to America!

Heading off the wild calf

All kinds of things were offered during the rodeo

Local school band practices

One way of getting around during the rodeo
Boy's Ranch - a beautiful place